IWithNoName

“The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman’s love with no intention of loving her.”
— Bob Marley (via ohlovequotes)

(Source: psych-facts, via ohlovequotes)

“They’ll always tell you that you’ll get over him. But, don’t listen to them. It’s not true. The only thing that will happen is that you will learn to live without them. In the beginning it will be hard, pretty gruesome. It’s life though - people always leave, when you least expect it. And when you watch that one person walk away, you’ll always look for a piece of him in someone new. When you see him again, you’ll always remember the love that you had once felt. You will want to rekindle that love, because it was once so powerful, but you know you’ll only end up feeling helpless. Just because it was once a great love, doesn’t mean it is the right love.”
— NDF (via trenndy)

(via mustbehigherlovee)

“And if you call me at 4 am, too sad to even say hello, I will listen to your silence until you fall asleep. If you need to cry I will not wipe your tears away because you are only human and sometimes tears are as close to laughter as you can get and that’s okay. If you get sleepy I will let you drool on my arm and I won’t laugh at you if you snore too loud. If you need to yell so hard that your voice cracks and your knees fail I will hold you up and yell with you. If you get so angry you punch your hands red I will ice your knuckles and tell you that wounds heal both inside and out, and just like the cold that is harsh and burning, I will always be the warmth to soothe you and make you feel better. I will love you.”
— lntroduction  (via hefuckin)

(Source: lntroductions, via punchdrunklove)

“No, fuck you. I was worth it.”
and I’m still worth it // R.R. (via hefuckin)

(via punchdrunklove)

Vagina

So here I am again, typing in the middle of the night because yet again Shayne has pissed me off. You know, I thought that there was hope, I thought that maybe he would want to stay, want to work things out and maybe actually love me like he acts like he does when he’s drunk. 

But no. 

Because I apparently asked someone if they wanted to see my vagina when I was drunk. Now, given that maybe if it was someone who I knew was single and not after anyone, then maybe I may have jokingly said it. But even as drunk as I was, and fully knowing that a close girlfriend of mine brought this guy along, why the HELL would I do something like that? 

I mean, I fell asleep on the toilet, drunk called Rob and almost hit Shayne, but say that to someone who I know my girlfriend is interested in? NO WAY! 

I remember saying something along the lines of her being interested in him, and maybe the word vagina was in there, but I most definitely did not ask him if he wanted to see mine. NO! 

But is anyone going to believe me? No. Because they’ve banded together and decided to be mad at me together. 

Yay! I’m back in high school. 

I was  told to have fun, I tried. I took it a little overboard, and I am sorry for that, but no one wants to hear sorry, they just want to continue to tell me how ‘stupid’ and loud and obnoxious I was. Truth be told, I put the quotations around stupid because when I made those decisions, I thought I was being mature about them. I was loud, I was obnoxious and I tried to separate myself from the situation so not to make things worse, but in doing that, I did make things worse. 

(And having some random high school friend butt in didn’t help)

I really didn’t realize I had fallen asleep on the toilet and was gone for 25 minutes. I also hadn’t realized that when I left, I was gone for more than an hour. I was intoxicated to the point where I didn’t have a sense of time. But I sure as hell remember what I said and what happened. 

There were a lot of stupid decisions made that night, and they weren’t just from me. 

If you’re reading this, I am sorry. I said fuck you because I was mad that you told me to have fun and then you were the one yelling at me the most. I tried so hard not to cause ‘drama’ when I inadvertently did. I tried to come to your house to apologize in person because I knew you wouldn’t answer your phone and probably wouldn’t talk to me for a while. I didn’t want things to get so bad with you and Shayne. I’m not Carlene, and don’t want to separate a friendship like yours. I didn’t realize you two were talking and I only wanted two minutes to apologize. 

I do adore you, and do hope that you’ll forgive me, but I will understand if you don’t. 

On another note, I called my friends out on their lack of friendship recently. One of them called me out on being busy all the time, and that set me off. The other realized it and went for coffee with me, and another was completely clueless of anything. It pisses me off when even my best friends don’t know what’s going on with me because they don’t care to ask. 

Also, my best friend is moving to South Dakota to live with her boyfriend…. now, don’t get me wrong, he seems like a great guy but the last time I talked to her she was just buying a one way ticket and hadn’t decided anything yet. The other day, she puts up a status and that’s how I find out her final decision. I understand I haven’t seen her, but seriously, she couldn’t have let me know over text? Or at least not a week before she’s leaving? I’m a little bit pissed off actually, because now EVERYONE is leaving for school and I literally have my mom and thats it. 

I’m also moving home, but that’s a whole other rant :( 

continuetobeawesome:

pr1nceshawn:

A Powerful, Thought-Provoking Comic On Depression And Battling It by Erika Moen.

I found this to be beautiful

“I can’t promise you a perfect relationship, but what I can promise you is this- if you are willing to try, I’m staying.”

icanrelateto

(via ohlovequotes)

(Source: psych-facts, via ohlovequotes)

“A man’s ego is just as fragile as a woman’s heart.”
— (via psych-facts)
Decisions, decisions!

So, there comes a point in life where you find yourself put in a bunch of situations that just don’t sit well with you. You know what you have to do, but you just made those decisions and if you back out now you could lose some respect. 

One year ago, I never would’ve had the courage to say no and that I was okay with where I am, but today. TODAY I am making some changes to my life that I should’ve made a long time ago. 

Last week I committed to a second job from a previous employer only to find that schedules would be right fucked all the time. 

Last week I committed to being a full time nanny while working two jobs and going to school so I could live rent free. 

A month ago I committed to living with my ex-boyfriend for 3 months with no proper time to grieve and give him complete privilege to my car. 

Not today mutha fuka! 

Today I am resigning from my second job so that my schedules are better. 

Today I am telling my girlfriend that I will not be a full time nanny, but that twice a week I will watch her wee ones. 

I will also tell my primary job that I have this commitment and they will respect it. 

Today I will tell my ex-boyfriend that he needs to treat me with more respect for allowing him the use of my vehicle so that he can not only get around, but get to and keep his job. 

Yesterday I threatened to leave him with nothing, and he called my bluff. Today he treats me as a friend. He knows I can destroy him - though I never could - many find no reason for me to take such care. 

I am strong. I am proud. I am a woman, and by god I am making some decisions today!

caledoniarps:


I don’t know about you guys but I am psyched to get an education, woo. This year is a hella important year for me because if I don’t finish this school year with five As then I am a dead man walking, you get me? So this started off as a collection to help me get those fabulous As but I thought, what the hell? I’ll share this perfection with everyone else because sharing is caring. Anyways, down to the nitty gritty

001. CALEDONIA’S DECLASSIFIED SCHOOL SURVIVAL GUIDE
advice for college
how to survive in college
how to survive freshmen year of high school
college packing list
alternative to buying expensive textbooks
dorm room survival
free online college courses
002. WRITE LIKE A FUCKING ANGEL
the ultimate guide to writing
how to write well
how to write an essay
how to write a good essay
the five paragraph essay
deadly sins checklist
formatting your paper
tips on getting started
seven tips to become a better writer (stephen king)
four ways to have confidence in your writing
seven ways to speed up your writing
five ways to add sparkle to your writing
how to finish what you started: a five step plan for writers
thirty-one ways to find inspiration for your writing
tips for dealing with writer’s block
003. READING ISN’T ONLY FOR NERDS AND FANGIRLS
how to take care of your books
how to read shakespeare
no fear shakespeare  (i found this incredibly useful when studying macbeth!)
one hundred most read books
how to read difficult books
how to read faster
books made into movies
books made into tv shows
350+ free ebooks
004. STUDY MOTHER FUCKER
studying tips
studying techniques
how to pull an all-night and still have a successful exam result
how to get motivated to study
tips to help you concentrate
time management tips
chrome site blocker
005. LEARNING SHIT
solve any maths equations: 1, 2.
when your teacher says not to use wikipedia (an alternative)
square root calculator, cube root calculator
for when you can’t do your homework
chemical equation balancer (what got me through chemistry last year)
cliffnotes, sparknotes
college courses
how to: multiply big numbers
crash courses (youtube)
teaches you everything
006. PRESENTING YOUR BEAUTIFUL SCHOOL WORK AY
free powerpoint (prezi)
free powerpoint presentations on anything
help with presentations
007. USEFUL WEBSITES BECAUSE THE INTERNET IS A WONDERFUL PLACE /SOMETIMES/
TED (basically gods gift)
challenge your brain
feed the hungry and up your vocabulary game
free online textbooks
final grade calculator
a whole page dedicated to studying and organising
008. MUSIC TO CALM DOWN UR SCHOOL DAY BLUES YO
a really chill playist
coffee shop blues
coffee shop sounds
calm nature sounds
concentration/focus playlist
relaxation is key
four hours of classical music
playlists to listen to: xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx, xxx.
009. ALL THIS STUDYING??? YOU NEED A BREAK, MY FRIEND.
watch a cute ass dog lick your screen
one hundred thousand stars
movies masterpost
foreign movies
gay movies
lesbian movies you should definitely watch
broadway musicals
LGBT+ books
download free books
read any book
the best masterpost ever if you’re bored
010. TIPS FOR SCHOOL N STUFF BCUS I WANTED TEN BITS
try your best. not everyone can get all As, and getting all As does not make you better than everyone else. just do the best you can and be the best person you can be.
don’t sleep in class! i know it seems so so tempting but slept my way through geography last year and i got a C in my exam instead of the expected A so…
Don’t tick off your teacher, follow the rules to an extent, get to class on time, respect your classmates and teachers. you know, just be a decent person.
be positive!!! and not just for the first week or so, keep the positivity going throughout the whole school year. if you don’t believe in yourself then why should anyone else?
"you can do it, wildcat, i believe in u" — something troy bolton said one time probably definitely

caledoniarps:

I don’t know about you guys but I am psyched to get an education, woo. This year is a hella important year for me because if I don’t finish this school year with five As then I am a dead man walking, you get me? So this started off as a collection to help me get those fabulous As but I thought, what the hell? I’ll share this perfection with everyone else because sharing is caring. Anyways, down to the nitty gritty

001. CALEDONIA’S DECLASSIFIED SCHOOL SURVIVAL GUIDE

002. WRITE LIKE A FUCKING ANGEL

003. READING ISN’T ONLY FOR NERDS AND FANGIRLS

004. STUDY MOTHER FUCKER

005. LEARNING SHIT

006. PRESENTING YOUR BEAUTIFUL SCHOOL WORK AY

007. USEFUL WEBSITES BECAUSE THE INTERNET IS A WONDERFUL PLACE /SOMETIMES/

008. MUSIC TO CALM DOWN UR SCHOOL DAY BLUES YO

009. ALL THIS STUDYING??? YOU NEED A BREAK, MY FRIEND.

010. TIPS FOR SCHOOL N STUFF BCUS I WANTED TEN BITS

  • try your best. not everyone can get all As, and getting all As does not make you better than everyone else. just do the best you can and be the best person you can be.
  • don’t sleep in class! i know it seems so so tempting but slept my way through geography last year and i got a C in my exam instead of the expected A so…
  • Don’t tick off your teacher, follow the rules to an extent, get to class on time, respect your classmates and teachers. you know, just be a decent person.
  • be positive!!! and not just for the first week or so, keep the positivity going throughout the whole school year. if you don’t believe in yourself then why should anyone else?
  • "you can do it, wildcat, i believe in u" — something troy bolton said one time probably definitely

(via casting-lines)

psychedelicatessenn:

stunningpicture:

I don’t know shit about photography, but the person who took this shot must be given the highest award of them all.

this is breathtaking

psychedelicatessenn:

stunningpicture:

I don’t know shit about photography, but the person who took this shot must be given the highest award of them all.

this is breathtaking

(via this--too--shall--pass)